When someone does something hurtful to you, knowingly or unknowingly, it is best to remember that they are not on our vibrational plane. Pettiness, gossip, stealing, physical and emotional violence. These things happen because people are unawakened. They are not on the level of cosmic understanding and are not in tune to a love vibration. And when they happen, take a deep breath. These things cannot truly hurt you as your vibration is already higher. You are above them. Above the meanness. Recognize the difference between planes. They cannot see or comprehend that which they are doing because they are not yet on a vibration to do so.